They'll ruin that element of surprise you've been planning, they kick your sisters kids, they'll cry for sympathy cause they know they're not strong enough to fight you, they'll rebel to tell you you've embarrassed them, they'll try to seek refuge from other adults, and all those things that pisses you off.
Nothing annoys me more than kids trying to show who's the boss.
But you know, its those small things that softens my anger.
Moves like small knocks on the door "maklong, saya panas.. Bole x sy masuk..", that small scratch on the neck and back cause it itches, the fear in that innocent eyes telling me that Im scaring them, small approaches hoping Id understand its an apology, even that sting of small pinch on my hand telling me that they have feelings too.
And if that doesn't work, its as simple as walking away and not making eye contact until you realize they're just kids, and that you're not being rasional.
